Take a deep breath here and stay with me.
I read a long time ago in a Beth Moore study where she likened our prayer life to marital intimacy with our husbands. Although I agree with her because there is a great bit of intimacy in prayer , I tend to agree more with John Eldredge.
In his book "The Journey of Desire" he wrote a chapter titled: "The grand affair".
Such a great book (I need to re-read it) and this chapter was so intriguing to me. I have pondered on it so much. He writes:
"For us creatures of the flesh, sexual intimacy is the closest parallel we have to real worship"
Stop here and let me say this. I hope you are married so you can better understand this. I also hope that you are as blessed as I am with a very healthy marriage. I am married to the most wonderful man on earth for me. My husband, although he is not perfect and he doesn't always "get me", he loves me very well. He is my best friend, my companion, he is good at lifting me up, taking care of me, and he is a wonderful giving lover.
Although Eldridge does a way better job at going deep into this, he really helped me understand the discipline of worship so much better, I see it now in such a new light. I got to thinking about sexual intimacy and what it requires of us. Lets face it, if you are truly going to experience great sexual intimacy with your husband there are a few things that are kind of required, or else it may not be all that healthy of a relationship.
First of all I need to feel very secure in the love and loyalty that my husband toward me. That is something that he has proven over and over in the 18 years of marriage. My husband is faithful.
Are you secure in the fact that God loves you, that he is loyal to you, he wishes no harm to you and can you see how he has shown himself faithful to you all these years?
Second, it's kinda hard to have sex with your clothes on! You have to take it off. I will pause here. So, how do you feel about that? For some crazy reason my husband thinks that I am the sexiest, most desirable person on the face of this earth. I know that, and I BELIEVE it! I know that I am not perfect, he knows that I am not perfect, yet he STILL wants me. He still treasures me, and when I understand that, then it is way easier for me to take it off and still have the light on. I have nothing to hide.
Do you think that God loves you and treasures you? Do you know that you can "take it all off" and he will still love you where you are, with the "extra pounds" the not so perfect "figure", with the "cellulite" or "varicose veins". If you don't feel like he will take you, then you will have a hard time taking it off. You will go through the motions and never know what it feels like to be "neked" in his perfect presence yet still be treasured in your imperfect being. Don't be ashamed in the presence of God, delight in him and let him delight in you!
Lastly, to have great sex you must give it your all. You could call it complete abandon.
All of this requires TRUST. I believe that that is the bottom line in this. It is why I think that worship is an act not only of adoration , but also one of trust, an expression of trust. "I not only love you and adore you Lord, you are the creator of the Universe and of me, you are powerful and mighty, but also I trust you and I GIVE myself fully and with total abandon." How can you believe, take it all off and be neked in the presence of God if you don't trust him? Don't worry about what it looks like on the outside, or what others seem to be doing, ask yourself: Do I trust you, God, with myself?
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